LIMITED — 10 SPOTS PER MONTH
Does Your Marriage Feel Like It's Running on Empty?
Your marriage isn't broken. You're just showing up with the wrong energy, and once you learn how to change that, everything changes. Claim your complimentary 45-minute Core Energy Coaching Session with Matthew Hoffman and take the first real step toward the marriage you actually want.
No credit card. No pressure. No long-term commitment. Just clarity. 10 spots per month; when they're gone, they're gone.
Trusted by Growth-Focused Leaders
"I kept asking myself, is this what the next 30 years are going to look like? We were living parallel lives. We loved each other, but we had no idea how to get back to each other."
If that sentence stopped you, you are exactly where you need to be.
Is This You?
You'll Know in About Five Seconds.
This Is For You
You're a working professional, and your career has consumed so much of you that you have nothing left to give your partner.
You're good co-parents and decent teammates, but you are lousy partners to each other.
Every conversation either turns into a fight or just quietly goes nowhere.
You love each other deeply, but feel completely emotionally disconnected.
Your marriage is getting the scraps of your time, your energy, and your attention.
This Is Not For You
You're not willing to look honestly at how you are showing up in your relationship.
You want your partner to fix everything without doing any personal work yourself.
You're satisfied staying in a roommate marriage for the rest of your life.
You're looking for a temporary fix that masks the real problem underneath.
What Is the Relationship Energy Assessment?
The Relationship Energy Assessment, powered by the Energy Leadership Index (ELI), is not couples therapy. It's not a personality quiz. It's a precise diagnostic that reveals the exact energy you're bringing to your marriage every single day and what that energy is silently costing you at home, at work, and inside yourself.
Every Other
Approach
Rehashes old wounds and past blame
Labels the problem without a real roadmap
Offers a temporary fix with no lasting change
Leaves you more frustrated than when you started
The ELI Relationship Assessment
Pinpoints the energy patterns quietly destroying your connection
Gives you a clear, custom roadmap with no guesswork
Creates real, measurable, and sustainable transformation
Immediately actionable from the very first session
What You Walk Away With
Complimentary Assessment + $500 Strategy Call-all of it yours!
Your Energy
Profile
Discover what kind of energy you are bringing to your marriage on a normal day and what shifts when you're under stress. This alone changes everything about how you see your relationship dynamics.
Clarity on Your Root Problem
Stop treating the symptoms. Walk away knowing the real issue underneath the communication breakdowns, the conflict, the distance, and what to do about it.
Your Relationship
Roadmap
Get the foundation of your personal Relationship Magna Carta, your custom guidelines for how you communicate, handle conflict, build commitment, and deepen your emotional connection and intimacy.
Tangible
Next Steps
Leave your session with concrete actions you can begin implementing tomorrow not someday, not after months of sessions. Right now.
A 45-Minute Private Core Energy Session
One focused, personal conversation with Matthew dedicated entirely to the number one issue impacting your relationship and the path forward from here.
Watch How the Energy First Marriage System Transforms Your Relationship
A Marriage Saved & A Business Strengthened in 90 Days.
Brittany and Sam were both successful professionals. Smart. Driven. Good parents on paper. But behind closed doors, they hadn't had a real conversation in months without it ending in conflict or cold silence. They were convinced the topics were the problem: money, schedules, intimacy, and parenting.
They were wrong.
The ELI Assessment revealed the energy patterns underneath every argument and the catabolic stress each was carrying from work and dumping directly into the relationship. They stopped fighting about surface issues and started addressing what was actually broken: how they were showing up for each other.
90 days later: intimacy restored, communication rebuilt, careers performing better than ever.
"We finally understood why we kept having the same fight. Once we saw the pattern underneath it, we knew exactly what had to change, and it did."
— Brittany & Sam, Business Owners & Married 14 Years
Here's How It Works
Claim Your
Spot
Fill out the short form below. Your confirmation and assessment access arrive in your inbox immediately.
Take the Energy Leadership Index Assessment
A focused online assessment completed at your own pace that reveals the seven levels of energy and exactly how you are showing up across all areas of your life, including your marriage.
Receive Your Personal Energy Report
Your full energy profile is prepared before your private session, so every minute of your time together is focused on insight and action.
Join Your Complimentary Core Energy Session
60 minutes, live and personal with Matthew. Your energy map, your next steps, outlined specifically for you, not a generic template.
Claim Your Complimentary Core Energy Coaching Session
Be honest. Your marriage has been waiting long enough.
10 Assessments Per Month. No Rollover. No Exceptions. When They're Gone, They're Gone.
What's It Going to Cost You?
The session: completely complimentary. Staying exactly where you are: 30 more years of feeling like roommates.
No pressure. No long-term commitment. Just a new way forward starting tomorrow.
What Happens When Couples Finally
Change Their Energy
Frequently Asked Questions
Is this really COMPLIMENTARY?
Yes. Matthew offers 10 of these sessions per month because the work is personal and specific. There is no pitch, no hard sell, and no long-term commitment required. Just clarity and a real path forward.
We're incredibly busy. How much time does this actually take?
The assessment itself takes around 30 minutes and can be completed on any device, on your schedule. The strategy session is one focused hour. That's it, 90 minutes total that could redirect the next 30 years of your marriage. If you have time to scroll, you have time for this.
We've already tried couples therapy. How is this different?
Couples therapy focuses on the past, how you got here. The Core Energy approach focuses on the energy you're both showing up with right now and builds a forward-looking system with real accountability. No rehashing old wounds. No re-traumatizing each other in sessions.
What if only one of us is willing to do this?
It starts with one person. When you shift your energy, it changes the dynamic of the entire relationship. Matthew has seen it happen hundreds of times.
What happens after I submit the form?
You'll receive immediate confirmation with your ELI assessment link. Complete it at your own pace. Matthew's team will then reach out to schedule your private one-hour strategy session where he personally walks you through your energy report, your relationship roadmap, and your customized next steps.
Matthew Hoffman is an IPEC Certified Professional Coach, Energy Leadership Index Master Practitioner, and the published author of Kick-Ass Husband: Winning at Life, Marriage, and Sex. Recognized by the International Coaching Federation, Matthew has helped hundreds of busy, successful couples stop living like roommates and start building the deeply connected marriages they actually want. He's not speaking from theory 20 years into a marriage that was quietly falling apart. Matthew did this work himself. He's now in his 32nd year of marriage and living proof that when you change your energy, everything changes.
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